It’s been 7 weeks since Carson and I officially became
parents…believe me, it still scares the beJesus out of us. The first few weeks
are complete survival mode and all about making “Little Izzy” happy! It also seems that a lot of my friends are
either trying to get pregnant, are pregnant or have a newborn/infant…which is
the idea behind this blog post. I have compiled a list of must-haves and other
helpful items I’ve used to help make this thing called Mommyhood more
enjoyable. No need to work harder when
you can work smarter! I encourage my other Mom/Dad friends to add to this list
or give opinions! New Mom’s or expecting?
You’ll read all of this and say to yourself, “OMG! OVERLOAD!” I did the same thing to every other info
blog, but I figure, if you use one of these items or heed some of our advice, I’ve
helped out. Also, you will figure out what works for you! It has taken us 7
weeks to start feeling comfortable in our new roles and routine…but be flexible…it
constantly changes. It’s fun, emotional, scary and down-right nasty at times…
just remember… your parents did all of this for you, and they survived, we will
too! J
Kelsey & Carson’s SURVIVAL ITEMS:
1 1. A & D Ointment…
I owe this one to my Mom and Sister. This
bottom barrier cream makes life better…bottom line (no pun intended) if you don’t
use this on your baby’s bum, you’ll be scraping dirty bits off their sensitive
parts and then most likely get tinkled on and or really tick off your tot. Use
it…ALL over their bottom…Poopy doesn’t stay still.
2. ITZBEEN Pocket Nanny…
Tovah Robertson…you’re a saint. This nifty
little gadget keeps us on a schedule. I found that lack of sleep caused poor
memory and I couldn’t tell you when the last feeding began or how long it took.
The Pocket Nanny has 4 timers…diapers, feeding, sleepzzZ and a bonus…I used it
for pumping. It also has a breast feeding function switch. This little bad boy
blinks when it’s time to eat again….Carson and I constantly say, “WHERE’S the
TIMER!? What’s the timer say!?” Our life depends on it J and so does Izzy's!
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3. MammaRoo…
The amazing modern swing. It has 5
different settings, Car ride, ocean wave, kangaroo, tree swing, -6 speeds and corresponding
sounds and an adaptable iPhone connector. Izzy has BAD reflux, which means
after a feeding, she cannot lay flat for 40-60 minutes without spitting up and
being in immense pain….The MommaRoo is an angled, baby soother…. I want a Roo
for myself. Perfect for when Mommy needs a shower!
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4. Boppy…
You’ve probably heard about this, but it’s
great! You wear it around your waist or in lap to help hold the baby. I found it is useful for pics or tummy time! Belle really likes laying on it too...For that I am thankful I have multiple covers to change out and wash.. I have found I can feed her without it, but when I’m tired or my arm is
tapped out, I use it. Great for grandparents and tummy time too!
5.
\5.Swaddle Wraps-Aden + Anais….
My favorite baby item & Life saver.
Thin, but warm enough and easy to do a proper swaddle. I’ll post a link to a
helpful video…also the nurses will show you in hospital…or you’ll figure it
out! J
These can also transform into a MommySling!
6. 6. Wubbanub Infant
Pacifier
Binkeys… (Soothee)
At first I swore my little one would STRICTLY
breast feed and NOT have a binky for 3 months…whatever. You gotta do what ya
gotta do. The pediatrician put it perfect, “ We do things to soothe ourselves,
twirl hair, bite cheek, twiddle thumbs etc. and babies need soothers too!”
Trust me. We like these because they are easy for Izzy to “hold” and don’t fall
as easily. Oh and get two at least…always need a back up!
7. Pampers Swaddlers Diapers vs. Huggies…(Pampers)
I may be stepping
on some toes here but I have met a Huggie I like yet. So far, the Pampers have
been winners for us. Izzy was in Premie diapers when she came home…didn’t
graduate to Newborn until 3-4 weeks old. Every single Huggie, no matter the
size fit her awkwardly…plus she had many accidents. The Pampers.Fit.Perfect.
Plus they have this awesome color changing indicator…yellow= dry….green means =
GO CHANGE ME! J
8.Dr. Brown Bottles vs. Tommee Tippee….(Dr.Brown)
Okay if you’re “strictly breastfeeding,”
don’t assume you need to skip this one. Be prepared for the day your child will
need a bottle, or maybe that Bfeeding won’t work all the time. If you plan on
returning to work, and won’t have access to your child, you WILL need some
stocked bottles they like. It takes time figuring out what sweet baby likes,
what you like etc. We love the Dr. Brown’s and I’ll just go ahead and say it, “I
absolutely despise the Tommee Tippee bottles.” Why? Nipples collapse, bottles
leak, she takes in more air…air = gas= fussiness=no sleep. The caps jam and
makes for a frustrating middle of the night feeding… only good thing? The
writing on the bottle is in black and easy to read. Dr. Brown’s have lots of parts and are a pain
to clean, but trust me, worth it.
9.Medela Sanitizing Bags…(Medela)
One of the greatest inventions since DVR… 5
bags to a package and each bag can be used 20 times. You wash bottles,
accessories, pacifiers etc, toss them in the bag with water (read directions
for amount) and nuke in the microwave…in under 3:00 minutes, the contents are
sterilized. Love these!
10.Vibrating/Music Playing bassinet or play yard… (Chicco)
Her bassinet in our bedroom is a loan from
my sister and it plays music and vibrates. We also use her play yard (featured
above,) that has a bassinet feature. Izzy especially loves the nature noises
and mobile of wild animals! Extra perk- it converts into a play yard as she gets older!
Like I said before, you can take or leave
this list! There are hundreds of other products we haven’t used yet, that may
be just as good, if not better. This is
just what we have needed to make it through our first 7 weeks. Trust me, you’ll
get more advice from everyone you know (wanted to not)…regardless,
go with your gut, remember that trial and
error will happen, and try to take in every moment!
I have already packed up some of Elizabeth’s
clothes since she’s growing so fast… I have to fight back tears every
time.
I will try to update more often…but Izzy is
sleeping at the moment, and that means it’s time for me to sleep too! J
